No, truth is, the more I study on this, the less I think of individual women as "special." Sure every life is special, but I never get that "oh my god first sight she's amazing and I want her" feeling anymore. Now it's more like "This girl is attractive, I'm going to talk to her and see if she's as cool as I hope she is." Nine times out of ten, "Nope."
"Nope."
"Uhh, no."
"Maybe! Okay! Let's try!" And THEN it's either "Damn" or "Score!"
The nice feeling is that I'M a catch, as opposed to how I grew up thinking "She's so beautiful, out of my league." NO GIRL is out of ANY GUY'S league. If he is driven and confident, with a bit of social intuition on top of it, his looks don't matter. That's a nice bit of knowledge.
And actually, we prefer calling it a "community."
And yes, I AM wearing MM sneakers, thank you for noticing.