http://video.google.ca/videoplay?docid= ... 6961728591See it and believe it.
And, here's a description of what to look for from my newsletter (yes, I get a newsletter.)
* 3:30 (three minutes and thirty seconds in) – Clips from Cajun teaching a real bootcamp!
* 4:50 – The judges note that Cajun isn’t especially good-looking and that everything he’s able to accomplish is because of his technique.
* 5:00 – Cajun’s become a bit of a legend in some circles for his pickup techniques. Even some of the judges have heard of his notoriety.
* 6:00 – When women at a club say “we’re lesbians” or “she’s my girlfriend” (this is on a competitor’s approach), it usually means you’ve shown too much interest. It’s a defense mechanism.
* 7:40 – Check out Cajun’s use of a creative opinion opener that he is very congruent with. Look at his body language. Look at how he occupies the strategic position against the wall to talk to these women. Lots to learn from and model here.
* 9:00 – One of the judges criticizes Cajun because, even though he is attracting beautiful women left and right, “it seems like he is going through a checklist.” Darn right he is. And it’s the same checklist anyone could follow and get the same results.
* 14:00 – Another judge comments on how Cajun doesn’t really use negs but gets great results: “Guys who are starting off use neg theory. Guys who are masters don’t need neg theory.” Men who read the book Magic Bullets when it came out have over a one-year head start knowing this.
* 15:20 – Another judge comments on how Cajun succeeds despite his looks: “This shows guys out there that looks don’t matter. Women are interested in power, status, and confidence.” “Power,” “status,” and “confidence” are of course, word-for-word, three of the eight attraction switches identified in Magic Bullets. Of course, the book doesn’t stop there; it gives a step-by-step approach to how to convey each one (and the five other switches), even if you aren’t naturally confident, powerful, etc.
And it's not like I would endorse this if I wasn't seeing results guys! I gave it to a friend of mine, he's been using it and asking questions, now he's got an open-relationship girlfriend and had a three-way makeout session with two 8/10 chicks! Not bad!! My Hahvahd friend hooked up with a HOTTTT ex of another friend of ours. I'm SO proud of him, she's a fucking babe. Our other friend who originally dated her won't hear about it though...lol.
Me, I fooled around with an ex for a while, but framed our interaction so that she wouldn't want to ask if we could start dating again. That was easy stuff, and when I get to my new college next year and start living on campus I'll get many more successes. A little before that I had who I used to call the "hottest girl in school" (without her knowledge) hitting on ME. We ended up with three cheek-kisses (though I should have just gone for it, I regret chickening out). Oh, and my body language kicks ass now thanks to my readings. I get hit on. I NEVER used to get hit on. Score.
Craziest part is listening to a friend of mine who doesn't read the book, and jumps from one long-term relationship to another. I asked him to go over every detail of how him and his new girl started up, and he named things they did and how it all went down. The cool part was that every success he made towards her was congruent with what I had read! They teased each other, did role-playing (easy for him, he's a theater major), he befriended and disarmed the obstacles...everything to the tee. So nobody can tell me that it's BS. I've SEEN it, I've DONE it, it WORKS.
Oh, and inner game is just the nerdy technical term for confidence. Since the stuff we say parallels how we view the world, they've coined the two as "inner" and "outer" game.
Final thought: Why is it so hard to believe that the human brain takes on specific patterns when dealing with social situations? We develop patterns for everything else. Hell, all of sociology revolves around the idea that there are specific patterns to social interaction that human beings innately follow.